the truth about the candy.
in the south of india, people used to catch monkeys in a very special way. actually they let monkeys catch themselves. what they did is cutting a small hole in a coconut, just large enough for a monkey to put its hand in. next, you fix the coconut to a tree, and fill it with a sweet. the monkey smells the sweet, squeezes its hand into the coconut, grabs the sweet and finds that, the fist does not fit through the hole anymore. now the trick is: the last thing the monkey will think of is to let go of the sweet, and it holds itself prisoner. nothing could be easier for a human being who comes and catches it.
be wiser than the monkey.
let go of the candy and be free.
